Tuesday, February 26, 2008

mindsex...

After reading Desy's steamy, provocative post a few days ago, I couldn't help but think about...sex. Good sex, bad sex, drunk sex, long sex, short sex, --just sex. For some sex is sacred, for some sex is simply a means to getting what they want, be it personal satisfaction or some material object. But is sex necessarily always physical? I have heard people speak of mental stimulation but I am not sure I have experienced this type of sex. Dead Prez referred to it as mindsex. I love good conversation but does it really heighten the overall sexual experience? Have you ever experienced mindsex?


"See i ain't got to get in your blouse
It's your eye contact, that be getting me aroused
When you show me your mind, it make me wanna show you mines
Reflecting my light, when it shines, just takin our time
Before the night's through, we could get physical too
I ain't tryin to say I don't wanna fuck, cause I do
But for me boo, makin love is just as much mental
I like to know what I'm gettin into"
-Stic.Man (Dead Prez)

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9 comments:

  1. i.can't.complain.February 27, 2008 at 12:15 AM

    can't say that ive experienced mind sex either.

    must be nice...

    -1-

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  2. DonFebruary 27, 2008 at 12:07 PM

    I've had a few mental orgasms here and there.

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  3. Eb the CelebFebruary 27, 2008 at 2:05 PM

    Nah...

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  4. GhostfaceFebruary 27, 2008 at 3:49 PM

    YOU HAVEN'T!!!!

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  5. 1980February 27, 2008 at 7:21 PM

    Brit you asking or tellin?

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  6. GhostfaceFebruary 27, 2008 at 10:31 PM

    You figure it out

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  7. Dark & StormyFebruary 28, 2008 at 1:19 PM

    I have definitely experienced mindsex. I look at as an appetizer or first course of "the meal". It should precede everything, even foreplay. Unfortunately, I haven't experienced it with many men... I don't think a lot of folks are hip to it.

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  8. B-More BAPFebruary 28, 2008 at 2:07 PM

    I have a poem about having my consciousness penetrated. In other words, mind sex. It's definitely out there and addictive.

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  9. 1980February 28, 2008 at 2:09 PM

    Well besides Desy and D&S, we are a bunch of "mindsex" deprived individuals!

    Desy- yeah that is a tat on my right shoulder. I hate it!! I got it when I was 18...young and dumb.

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