well i'm kinda am/was in the same situation. you just have to either make the relationship strictly friendship or dont talk to your ex anymore cause you still have feelings. thats the only way to get over it is to seperate urself completely so you can move onto someone else.
damn...you got me stumped on that one. it's hard for me to get over someone when they're in my face all the time. i need some time apart so i can get over you, then i'm able to engage you again.
good question???? I was once in that same situation...and I had to fight the temptation of reliving the moments when we were a "couple" and focus on the friendship.
The moral of the story is...about 3 months later we were back together. Love ususally finds it way back.
You have to eventually get over the past and focus on nurturing your current friendship. If you don't feel like you will ever get over her, then maybe you need to reevaluate if you want to continue the friendship. If being around her makes you want to get with her constantly, then it's a very tough situation. Good luck!
I agree with Randy. 100%
ReplyDeletewell i'm kinda am/was in the same situation. you just have to either make the relationship strictly friendship or dont talk to your ex anymore cause you still have feelings. thats the only way to get over it is to seperate urself completely so you can move onto someone else.
ReplyDeletedamn...you got me stumped on that one. it's hard for me to get over someone when they're in my face all the time. i need some time apart so i can get over you, then i'm able to engage you again.
ReplyDeleteWHOA!!! im still not over my ex/bff
ReplyDeletegood question???? I was once in that same situation...and I had to fight the temptation of reliving the moments when we were a "couple" and focus on the friendship.
ReplyDeleteThe moral of the story is...about 3 months later we were back together. Love ususally finds it way back.
thanks for the advice everyone! its been difficult but i'll get through it!
ReplyDeleteYou have to eventually get over the past and focus on nurturing your current friendship. If you don't feel like you will ever get over her, then maybe you need to reevaluate if you want to continue the friendship. If being around her makes you want to get with her constantly, then it's a very tough situation. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteomg that is exactly how i feel...sometimes you gotta' take a time out...find urself :)
ReplyDelete@dcfab - thanks for stopping by! i'm always at your spot checking out what's going on in DC.
ReplyDeleteseparation....for time to heal
ReplyDeletedamn man you been going through some SHIT lately. it's like i can feel your pain through the computer screen.
ReplyDeletegot no advice. you gotta find what is best for you. its hard not having that shoulder there to lean on, and you are giving up your cuddling buddy too.
too tough to call.